日记 冒雨逛电脑城 挂三跤【严建设】

2023年08月20日 Sunday阴雨

入秋以来难得的凉爽。今日气温22度。滴滴答答秋雨下个不停。早上冒雨与老妻跑了趟赛格电脑城，预备去办两件事。一是一直以来，想把1986年录制的一盘小1/2录像带的资料导出来。小1/2的摄像机录像机很难找得到，但这段视频很珍贵。内容是当年杨伯虎和陈璞伉俪的新婚典礼，里面有很多过去的熟人朋友，那些场景再也看不到课，当年的小两口子热情佻达，我们曾与1976年骑摩托车去了鲸鱼沟泳池游泳，拍了一个彩色胶卷留念。那次由于我的疏忽，一个不当心排风管把自己右腿的小腿肚子烫伤了。我当年骑一辆大红色铃木125摩托车，是3700元买的。杨伯虎骑一辆黑色嘉陵70摩托车。

那阵子他俩还有点闹矛盾，在泳池里陈璞趁杨伯虎游向远处，偷偷跟我说想跟伯虎离婚，谁知一语成谶。后来真的离婚了，离婚后毕竟割舍不下依依难舍，几年后终于又复婚了。有一年其母亲任春霞来我家跟母亲叙旧，哭哭啼啼说道俩人闹离婚事情，说俺家陈璞傻啊，二杆子货。咋啥事都敢跟杨伯虎说呢。

20多年前的一天，我在东大街西安饭庄隔壁的老人头鞋行，遇见陈璞，说她跟伯虎已经复婚了。当然祝贺他俩。还说他俩复婚后现在关系比过去更好了，彼此交心无话不谈，把过去的啥事都跟伯虎说了。有些事情有些话，不离婚根本说不出口，如释重负，说了心情也轻松很多。不说对伯虎不公平，叫他猜疑一辈子，还不如说了干脆。那次我赠送她一本自己发表的长篇小说。好像当年他俩在阎良发展，搞大棚种植，未辨真假，当然谋生非常不容易。虽说杨伯虎近些年跟我毫无来往，有些龃龉不合，但这个录像带我还是一定要交给他的。毕竟将近40年了，很有纪念意义。观看40年前的婚礼录像带可以是一个有趣和富有启发性的体验，可了解过去的文化和历史。

当年一般饭店餐厅包席的价格是15-18元，席面上鸡鱼肉均有，基本上会被扫荡一光。相当于一个普通人的半月工资。酒水一般是丹凤葡萄酒、绵竹大曲、汉斯啤酒之类，价格大致分别为0.68元/瓶、0.18元/斤。饮料以高橙为主。40年前的婚礼录像带可能会包含一些有趣的历史和文化信息。通过观看录像带，可了解当时的时尚、音乐、礼仪和文化背景。肯定会看到一些与现代婚礼不同的传统和习俗。看到当年美女们喝的满脸通红神采飞扬原形毕露极尽妖娆之态。观看40年前的婚礼录像带还可以让人回顾家人的过去，了解其家族的历史和传统。这可能会是一个充满回忆和感动的经历。陈璞的母亲也就是杨伯虎的丈母娘年轻时很漂亮，在解放市场工作，党员干部，芳名叫做任春霞，一直寡居。与我母亲关系好常来我家。家里兄妹二人，其兄曾是个大帅哥，大名叫做陈斌。肤白高大英俊，曾在摔跤队工作。个子高身体棒力气大讲义气，在街坊上有些名气。

1975年，我曾屡次见他当街抢卖梨瓜、卖苹果农民的瓜果，不管不顾拿着就跑，自信别人根本撵不上而遭骂。然后蹲在墙角跟自己的小兄弟分吃。那一年，冬季的一天，我在家午睡，他忽然带了三五个小兄弟到我家来，约我出去摔跤。其中有王双泉。我想他是摔跤的行家，我肯定是赢不了的，但是好面子就硬着头皮跟他们出了巷子，走进了东木头市中柳巷的一处空地，也就是民盟大楼东墙下。当时他左胳膊有点儿伤，缠着绷带，我一看心里暗笑，想着他一只胳膊肯定赢不了我。这种模式当年在西安叫摆场子，也叫挂三跤，不能算是真的翻脸，也就是赌个输赢罢了。赢了在小兄弟面前很有面子，能吹嘘很多年。输了就不好说了。当年他眼光里含着凶狠，有点敌忾之意，那几个家伙也恶狠狠的盯着我。我想可能是有人说我坏话了。那个年代很乱，好勇斗狠的年轻人经常凭摔跤，赌高低拼输赢。我当时刚刚午睡起床，一时没反应过来，心下有点诧异。他右胳膊上缠着绷带，可能是受伤了。而我根本就不会摔跤也不想去，但是经不住那三个闲人言语一激，就随他们去了。

一开始我使了个擒拿动作，叫金丝缠腕，听到他们喊开始，一伸右手冷不防一把抓住他左手腕反向一拧，立即用胳膊肘使劲大力往下压，他撑不住，把他重重摔了一跤。他爬起来用手背擦擦嘴巴显得很恼火，大声吼道咱不能这样，咱俩是比摔跤又不是比擒拿，再说我还没学过擒拿。说这不公平，咱俩说的是摔跤，没说是擒拿格斗。

我说但是我不懂摔跤，我只能按我的办法来。他说这不行，摔跤不能使用擒拿格斗的方式方法，咱还是正式一点按摔跤，只能用摔跤的方法。他那几个小兄弟七嘴八舌起哄给他敲边鼓。王双泉说这不能算，凭啥摔跤用擒拿办法嘛。我想可是我也不会摔跤呀。可我不好意思说出口。那三个闲汉七嘴八舌一直在煽惑，就是不能用其他擒拿动作，摔跤就摔跤。不然就不地道。我想脱身走开，那三个闲汉拦住我不让走，非逼着我跟他摔跤不可。当年我有点大意，想着他胳膊上带伤着呢，也不怕他。结果没想到上去才搭上手，没转两圈冷不防就被他摔倒了。大家都不说话，可能也都不失面子，也就散了。这个事儿也就算了。然后好多年没联系。听说有俩美女同学倒贴他。每天给他买烟。

那次一赢一输也就算平了。大家彼此没话说，大眼瞪小眼，自顾自各自走了，但关系算是坏了，见面如同陌路人一般。此事后来我跟史广军说了，他说你不会摔跤就不能摔第二跤，再说翻脸打一架也成。说的时候是1978年。

1984年夏天的一个周日,我和妻子带着女儿去逛动物园。突然遇见了他。看到他黑黑瘦瘦的，好像得了重病一样很憔悴的样子。老远就不停挥手大喊大叫，喊我哥跑过来，他非常殷勤过来陪着笑，跟我握手一口一个哥一口一个哥，把我叫的不知所措，他小我一岁还是西安市20中学的校友，以前是喊我名字的。虚头巴脑穷聊了一阵。哥长哥短的握手拥抱拍肩膀跟我非常亲热。我一时还有点蒙圈回不过神来，然后聊了几句，他说他想跟我借50块钱，他妈妈病了住院了，存折是死期的取不出来。明天就还，有个急用。我二话没说就借给了他。当时我也没多想。就给了他50块钱。然后第二天在南柳巷口相遇，他又借了我30块钱。

然后就没然后了。当年我的工资是37.5元。然后过了一段时日，我在单位遇到了他妹妹陈璞聊起此事，陈璞听了慌忙说，你咋敢给陈斌借钱！叮咛我以后绝对不要借钱给他，借他钱是害他。说他现在不学好，冒泡呢，逮谁跟谁借钱，连借带骗，亲戚朋友都借遍了骗遍了，俺妈成天在家哭。绝对不要再借一分钱给他。把亲戚朋友家都祸害遍了。

听到这个消息，我真是扼腕叹息，觉得这个人交友不慎遇人不淑识人不善，缺乏辨别力、自制力而误入歧途，太可惜了。没几年后再听说他挂了。再听说他的伙伴也有戒烟的，戒不成重犯的也挂了。

陈斌算是我的街坊，当年也在东木头市，骡马市斜对面的娘娘庙巷里住。说起来，我和其母亲、妹妹都非常熟。母女俩跟我应该算是同事，还有些情分。当年母女俩相貌眉清目秀都挺漂亮。其母亲当年和女儿陈璞同时都在解放百货商场工作。1983年开始我也在该商场工作。可能是女儿接班，母亲续聘。陈斌当年生得身强力壮英俊高大肤色白皙，相貌很帅。曾在省体育学院摔跤队，擅长摔跤和短跑，据说其爆发力强，曾被授予运动健将。1975年曾荣获过陕西省少年组400米长跑第一名。实话实说挺令人敬佩的。

当年听说陈斌跟一帮闲人闲汉不学好。此后我俩见面彼此尴尬装不认识。我屡次见他手里拿了两个甜瓜，从南柳巷口撒开脚丫在马路中间拼命向东飞跑过去。后边有个衣衫褴褛的农民戴着破草帽推着自行车在那里破口大骂，车后面衣架挂了俩藤条筐。

我想他不是偷瓜而是抢瓜。他跑得飞快，根本没人能撵得上他。然后此事屡屡发生，他不偷，但抢，抢来就跑。他抢来的瓜果都笑嘻嘻跟龟五奎六一帮子同伴们分吃了。当年感觉他误交损友引狼入室。亲朋好友说不下他，街坊们没人敢说，稍许有点怕他。然后几年没影。再后来听说挂了，非常可惜。陈斌一事值得年轻人借鉴。主要是交友不慎，人多一辈子，有些巧言令色狂妄自大谋财害命的鳄友交不得。这事应反复说。

当然由于录像带的时代久远，可能存在一些技术问题，例如画质模糊、声音不清或磁带受损等。因此，在观看之前，最好做一些准备工作，例如确保设备能够播放录像带，或者将录像带转换为更现代的存储格式，以便更好地保存和分享。

我俩存车后上了三楼，经介绍找到一个修理照相机的摊位，一位姓张的师傅接待我，说是没见过这种录像带。我提醒他，要去大专院校的电教室找关系去借，只要有小1/2录像的摄像枪或录像机、单放机就成了。我曾在东新科贸大楼转存过大1/2录像带，是1977年、1978年录制的，非常珍贵。里面有我和老伴的镜头。

在电脑城买了一只萤石2KAI版智能猫眼，高清像素可视门铃，可支持远程通话，主要用于防盗保障考虑。索价850元，还价800元，成交。软件在电脑城就下载好了，但回家后安装后调试不能用，接连跟销售者视频也不能用，销售者推荐联系售后服务，联系半日也搞不定，约好明日来家调试、检查和维修，说可能东西出问题了。或者摄像头有故障，需要更换新的摄像头。带一个过来。可视门铃无反应，无法监控显示。也可能是通信网络状态异常，需要在连接网络的情况下尝试重新打开，也只能静待明日人上门服务了。

午餐在韩森路一家葫芦头泡馍馆子吃了，一般般吧，馆子优先考虑外卖，等的时间稍长，则冒雨蹲在门口街拍，雨中倒影很妙曼。

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