小情侣公共场合大秀恩爱
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“接着奏乐,接着舞!”
于和伟明明是一位演技在线、外形帅气的男演员,结果被大众熟知的却是一段恶搞鬼畜小视频,这一切都是因为他的大器晚成。
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他21岁考上上戏,40多岁才获得名气,但家人的支持令他感恩,母亲45岁生下他,靠吃着大姐的奶长大,还有其余7个哥哥姐姐的扶持。
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最让他忘不了的就是相识于微时的漂亮妻子,还没结婚就替他在家尽孝,靠着几百块就把她娶回了家,于和伟的魅力到底在哪里?
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大器晚成,叔圈顶流
在很多综艺里,于和伟总是和徐峥、黄渤等一起露面,虽然大家都是叔圈扛把子,但只有他是那个最特殊的。
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徐峥和黄渤都是很早就出名的,在演艺事业上都取得了不小的成就,两位影帝的名字和搞笑气质为他们招来了许多粉丝。
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但是于和伟不是谐星,在“搞笑”的道路上貌似只有那么一个鬼畜视频,大家记住他的反而是各种年代戏和正剧里的角色。
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比如《觉醒年代》中独立自主的“陈独秀”,《三国》中礼贤下士的“刘备”,《巡回检察组》里的检查组组长“冯森”,他好像天生适合演这些角色。
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尤其现在他已经52岁了,很多影视剧里都有他的身影,就像春节档《第二十条》中的出演,仿佛是在说,于和伟已经是叔圈顶流,没有他演不了的戏。
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但是,人们印象里的他,好像一直都是40岁左右的样子,那么这位演技不俗的演员年轻的时候在干什么,那时候没有在演戏吗?
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答案肯定是在演,没有年轻时候的积累,怎么会有中年时纯熟的演技,只是那时候的他一直在演小角色、跑龙套,观众没有记住他罢了。
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21岁时于和伟才考上的上海戏剧学院,这个决定可是他深思熟虑后做的破釜沉舟的决定。
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1971年出生的他是母亲45岁时才生下来的,他的前面还有8位哥哥姐姐,由于母亲年纪大了没有足够的奶水,于和伟是靠着当时的大姐奶大的。
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一家子这么多人本就过着不富裕的生活,结果他3岁时父亲去世,无奈之下母亲就靠着卖红薯养着一家子,于和伟没事了就陪在母亲的红薯摊前。
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母亲看着乖巧的小儿子心疼不已,最后一家人商量后,决定咬牙把于和伟送去上学,这是家里独一份的待遇,他珍惜不已。
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然而学习这种事不是光有志气就可以的,他没有那种寒门学子靠着知识改变命运的幸运经历,在初中毕业后只能去幼师学院混个中专文凭。
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于和伟本打算就这样浑浑噩噩的过着日子,但是全家人供他读书的情分让他难以释怀,最终他决定换个方向找出路,或许演戏是个不错的选择。
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就这样他在21岁才考上大学,由于比同班同学年纪大,他更没有虚度光阴的资本,于是他新的赛道他发奋图强,终于顺利毕业成功进入了南京军区政治部前线话剧团。
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本以为毕业了他就能成为一名有名气的演员,但是他想错了,演艺圈人才济济,刚毕业的小透明只能演龙套,一个充满斗志的人就这样在陪衬的道路上逐渐消磨了意志。
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糟糠之妻,恩爱不疑
在这时候拯救于和伟的未来,也让观众们能看待这个魅力大叔的,正是于和伟在上大学前认识的漂亮媳妇。
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关注于和伟的人应该都知道,他很少在公共场合提及自己的妻子,以至于大家对于他的感情生活非常陌生。
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但事实上他有一个恩爱了多年的妻子,名字叫做宋林静。
当年于和伟还没有考上大学的时候,就对是舞蹈演员的宋林静一见钟情,穿着裙子翩跹起舞的身姿令他魂牵梦萦,但是他的家庭情况让他不敢告白。
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宋林静长得漂亮家境也不错,身边根本不缺追求者,所以于和伟只能把爱慕之情放在心里,默默地守护在对方身边。
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可能是这个长得不错还的男孩稳重体贴,女神一样的人物竟对他格外留意,她走在前边,他跟在后边,时间久了,女神便先开口表白。
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就这样年轻的小男女走在了一起,为了家里人也为了配得上女友,于和伟决定去考大学,看着这么努力的男友,宋林静也甘愿追随。
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当于和伟远赴上海读书,留在家乡的宋林静便每隔两个星期就去于家看看于和伟的母亲,没有结婚就替男友尽孝,这样的女友也令于和伟十分感动。
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看着这样的未来媳妇于母是爱得不行,但是她也心疼小情侣分隔两地的苦,就劝于和伟把本科改成专科,这样就能早两年毕业回家陪宋林静。
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于和伟斟酌了情况后就鼓励宋林静也考上海戏剧学院,他说学校的表导进修班刚好招人,如果宋林静考上了两人就能一起上学下学了。
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听到建议的宋林静也很心动,但是她又担心自己考不上,于和伟哪能让女友忧心这个,他主动提出可以帮她补习,就这样宋林静顺利地考上了于和伟所在的大学。
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很巧的是,两人不仅能一起经历校园生活,最后还能在同一年毕业,并同时分到了南京军区政治部前线话剧团,只是两人毕业后的情况就此拉开距离。
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于和伟在同班同学中属于年纪大的,再加上他是新人,在话剧团很少有演戏机会,大部分时间都是坐在观众席看别人排练,这个过程令他十分煎熬。
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而宋林静在剧团很快就成了导演助理,每天有自己的事业可以忙,这就更显得于和伟默默无闻、无所事事,他毕业时的豪情壮志即将消磨殆尽。
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宋林静也注意到了于和伟的状态,她不忍心自己的爱人继续消沉,就在每天下班后拿着整理的资料跟他一起探讨,谁的戏很好可以学习,哪部剧不错可以观摩……
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就这样于和伟慢慢积累了很多经验,他也在妻子的鼓励下找回了斗志,不怕跑龙套也不怕演小角色,他相信获得成功总是要经历磨炼的。
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如今,成功的于和伟向观众们展示了自己的成果,而他也没有忘了自己的家人和妻子,每每说到他们的支持,于和伟就会表明自己感恩的心。
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结语
在于和伟身上能看到很多道理,家和万事兴、妻贤夫祸少、坚持不懈中能看见彩虹等,这也足以说明他是一个懂得感恩和坚毅的人。
想要成功就要耐得住寂寞,如果能像于和伟一样一辈子只做好一件事,那么没有谁会失败。
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