踏青兴庆宫赋-校园杂记【严建设日记】

2024年03月21日Thursday

时维甲辰二月十二，余本欲偕亲眷驱车南行，逾秦岭踏青赏花，然老妻云今日有听证会辄止，会后籍此残步，径往兴庆宫一游。余五十余春秋，足践此地，拍摄照片已逾万余。胜日寻芳泗水滨，无边光景一时新。

春阳微风，踏青至兴庆宫公园。柳线新绿，摇曳生姿；红梅盛开，艳丽如霞。啼莺舞燕，小桥流水。湖水清澈，倒影历历，如诗如画。园中玉兰花绽放，皎洁如雪，馥郁芬芳。遥想当年，贵妃或曾于此赏花弄影，云想衣裳花想容，春风拂槛露华浓，惊艳李白一干人等，不由心驰神往。碧玉妆成一树高，万条垂下绿丝绦。

风乍起，吹皱一池春水。春和景明，兴庆宫中美不胜收。有唐装女子，翩然而至，游春赏景。其衣袂飘飘，风姿绰约，面若桃花，笑靥灿烂。漫步于花径之间，似与春色融为一体，令人陶醉。或轻抚花枝，或低语浅笑，或翩翩起舞，皆显优雅之态。众人皆侧目而观，为之倾倒。绿杨烟外晓寒轻，红杏枝头春意闹。

鸟鸣婉转，悦耳动听，游人络绎不绝，或漫步赏景，或驻足拍照。其乐融融。屡逢青妇、老妇，持手机迎面拍摄，余心知肚明，亦不说破，任之由之。其乐融融。其间邂逅故友王飞、熟络网友诸人，握手寒暄，相谈甚欢，合影而散。

忆及少龄青涩，拟携丽人至此徘徊摄影不值，惆怅拟写诗词而归。白驹过隙，屈指算来，五十春秋。于今一想，恍若隔世。也信美人终作土，不堪幽梦太匆匆。

见白发翁媪自得其乐，手之舞之足之蹈之，或顿喉高歌，或踢毽子、滚铁环。又见有老者裸身锻炼，单杠双杠，技艺娴熟，年近古稀，胸肌勃起，令人赞叹。余自愧不如，亦当强身健体，以保康健。绕湖一周，游罢而归，心满意足，虽身疲而神畅。

其东门之外，道阴夹植紫叶李，花期已至，如烟似霞，氤氲叆叇。余挟红灯之隙强摄之。车水马龙，忽忽而过，花团锦簇花瓣纷洒，花枝摇曳，洋洋洒洒蔚为壮观。叠叠乱粉似丽人，又被东风吹去。谓之紫气东来。后径赴兴庆宫左近之炙凫饭肆一饱。盖饭肆名曰三六九烤鸭店。团购四人餐玖拾叁元。余偕老妻饕餮罄净一扫而光。

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近日，邯郸未成年人校园霸凌凶杀一事已成热门，令人扼腕叹息。但校长支支吾吾，不说公道话，否认校园霸凌。其实校园霸凌一直都有，或轻或重，班主任、校长心知肚明，担不起立德树人的使命，放任自流甚至推波助澜，难脱干系。

遥想50余年前，我在西安市20中学读书，隔三差五被班主任谭德荆老师组织班上同学们批判，导致大家歧视而一度没人跟我说话，视我如同异类，这种情绪持续几十年之久，个别老同学一直延续到今日。当然，当年我饱受校园霸凌，时不时遭受欺负，一直到毕业前夕的1973年岁末，都十七八岁了还有人在楼梯上照例冲我吐唾沫。我一直觉得，那帮人一直缺一个致歉。

因写过反标和家庭成份高，屡遭到高年级同学谩骂殴打，被同班同学人扔砖头扔土块吐唾沫撕作业。当时我们班教室在4楼上。

1973年冬天，有次我从3楼上4楼时，觉得上面好像滴水了，一摸头发湿的。觉得很奇怪。所以第二天我从3楼上4楼时多了个心眼。刚上楼梯就抬头往上看。

结果被我看见4楼的护栏处，我们班的班长朱永安。抿嘴向我呲唾沫。看到被我发现了。猝不及防讨好一笑翻身就跑。我非常恼火，多年所受的欺辱和不公正待遇好像爆发了，这件事不是头一次，一贯如此，只是被我发现了而已。联想到他当面人五人六一贯作为我怒不可遏。立即追过去冲进教室。然后劈胸揪住他领子，把他从座位上隔着桌子拉出来。左右开弓，打了他俩响亮的耳光。

正在撕扯中也就那么寸，凑巧左倾的班主任谭德荆老师走进教室，然后他像个委屈而撒泼的婆娘一样哇哇大哭，然后班主任一看他满脸涨红有手印大怒，怒不可遏，一拍讲台照例开会要我做检讨，大家发言来批判我，怒斥我，群起攻之。当年我很蔑视朱永安，曾期末考试6门功课不及格。优点就是会巴结班主任而已。立即组织全班同学开会批判我。那年我们17岁了。其过程前文曾叙。

像这种班级批判会，我是屡经沙场。最先踊跃发言的人一般是姚长生和韩小棉。然后零零碎碎有些人。接到班干部的授意，也三三两两站起来发言。当时杨建弟、王虹斜觑着我说，再怎么着也不能动手打人。动手打人非常恶劣的，是流氓习气。要文斗不要武斗。颇具煽风点火意味。我气坏了。当时想，我们班真是一个是非颠倒，不辨黑白的班集体，一丝一毫道理也不讲。

当年同学们柿子捡软的捏，而当年我可能就是班上最软的那个柿子。当年他们隔三差五开会批判我，撕我作业本、背后扔土疙瘩砸我，类似欺负我之事不胜枚举。批斗会经常是周三的下午。周三下午都是自习课。

当然，毕业之后我以德报怨，待班主任谭德荆老师很好，屡次来我家饮酒叙旧，夏天脱个光膀子。我曾帮他过生日，借钱给他到死都没还。其病重临死前夕我还和韩成学去看望他。他说，当年他只是想表现进步，一门心思想入党，写申请写思想汇报写了1尺多厚，临了还是没入成。令我颇感意外的是，自从打过朱永安后，班级和年级里一些嚣张的同学忽然变得和气了，一反常态变得见面寒暄了有讨好的笑貌了。当然个别不友好者遭到我粗暴家访。福尔摩斯说，正义得不到伸张，纯粹的复仇就成了唯一的正义。

几年前韩小棉微信我：老同学好。时光悄悄过去，回头看看已到了半百年纪。风风雨雨这辈子所看到的和经历过的，已教会了我们怎么做人？如何处事？少时的优秀生固然很好，但差生也未必前途渺茫，关键是人要立志，没有大志也得立小志。咱班的优秀生有几个出彩的？少之甚少。当年的学霸也有没进大学之门深造至今平平。活到老学到老，更要明白到老。多读书更要会读书。教育的目的是先把人做好，多看别人的优点，不嘲弄不诋毁，更不去抹黑抹灰，多些包容和诚意。今生能相遇相知都是缘分，同学一场的情份彼此应多关照和尊重。老同学，人这辈子真不容易，放下所有的不愉快，那些过去的烦心事儿能忘记就忘记，没有什么过不去。余生呢，做些自己喜欢的力所能及的，有所为有所不为的事情。保管好自己身体，简单轻松愉快的生活，健健康康的生活就是幸福。我的一点感悟和想法，还望老同学见谅。人生的道路上，我们不妨可以应用数学中常用的加减乘除法。好事儿就用加法和乘法，对不痛快的事则用减法或除法。扔掉包袱，前行的路会轻松很多，人生中也会有豁然开朗惊喜连连的感受。就聊到这儿东拉西扯总想让你明白些，请多多包容理解。

说明一点，她可能是摘录的。我们年近七旬，早过了半百十几年了都。抹黑抹灰措辞不妥，本身就是黑的灰的谈何抹。我之所以保持跟她的联系，是因她和姚长生是发小和以前的质朴、受人利用。但是很多观念其实也扭转不了，比方她赞成中国人集体失忆，相当于赞成中国人集体失明，也等于赞成中国人集体失道。

我说过，实际上当年对我批判最凶的人，发言最积极者有韩小棉和姚长生。我自始至终没怪过此二人，相反现在跟姚长生关系甚好。倘如此说道我肯定会改变对她的看法。

当然，当年校园霸凌之事持续数年之久，一直在发酵。临到毕业前夕，张一兵还很嚣张，比如骗我家一书包珍藏的书撕开做手纸，任意欺凌辱骂弱小，给周永安头上撒尿等等。前文曾叙。当年谁念过哪怕一丝一毫发小旧情？我常想，我们不做史盲。老都老了被侮辱余被伤害着连句实话都不敢说吗？何况那帮缺德者人江山易改禀性难移，没丝毫态度。正如人所说的坏人变老了。往事历历在目，并不如烟。

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勾婉狐13054065420 ______ 考试不及格应该是有一次补考的机会,如果补考再不过就挂科了,后果就是一切有关荣誉的都没有你的份了,对以后你保研什么的都是影响!唯一的补救措施就是好好锻炼,应该不难及格的啊!

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勾婉狐13054065420 ______ 1000及格线是4分15 但是好像毕业拿学位证只要4分33就可以了 其实老师都很好说话的 我们班跑5分的很多 最后老师那成绩写的是4分33 1000米第一次不及格紧接的一周有补考 跟老师说下就OK的 大三大四的1000米跑是从去年开始的 去年很正规 进去都要核对学生证 今年乱来的 很多都躲扔铁饼那为了少跑一圈 详细情况找个好说话的老师咨询下

殳荷薛889浙大一学期跑步太少会有什么后果啊?
勾婉狐13054065420 ______ 小于60%就不及格了啊,就是挂科了额,不过我的天表担心这个,你可是全勤哦,还会有加分的~~

殳荷薛889东南大学跑操挂了到底要不要重修啊? -
勾婉狐13054065420 ______ 跑操不满45次,本学期成绩单上体育成绩会被记为“不及格“,但是你的体育课成绩仍然是存在的,和你体育课的出勤和上课表现考试成绩相关,不和跑操情况挂钩.所以,跑操没满45次,体育课还是要认真上,这样就算这学期不及格,大三只需要重新跑操一个学期,满45次,成绩单上体育成绩就正常显示成体育课的分数了,体育课就不需要重修.如果你因为跑操不满45次,知道自己注定不及格了,结果体育课也不去上了,那你体育课成绩也不及格,那你大三除了跑操还需要重修一学期体育课.