\n在阅读此文之前，麻烦您点击一下“关注”，既方便您进行讨论和分享，又能给您带来不一样的参与感，感谢您的支持。\n李雪琴说：\n“心疼男人倒霉一辈子”\n洋子紧随其后表示：\n“给男人花钱倒霉三辈子”\n
\n本以为只是综艺上的笑料，不料却成了清子和大海哥感情生活最好的写照。\n
\n01开始的甜蜜\n一个是未来可期，有过代表作\n（新还珠格格中的欣荣格格）\n的新人演员。\n
\n一个是模特圈没名没姓的十八线。\n当初清子和大海哥的恋情公开之际，有多少人不看好这对情侣？\n
\n一方面女方比男方大五岁。\n单看数字，在夫妻相差二三四岁，照样结婚，照样甜蜜的娱乐圈很常见。\n可年龄这道鸿沟，也为两人的以后埋下了隐患。\n
\n另一方面，就是事业上的差距。\n女人大红大紫，男人默默无闻，这一点就注定了这是一段不公平，不长久的感情。\n
\n不是把人想得太坏，只是有太多女艺人证实了这一点。\n比如，杨幂和刘恺威。\n
\n男方在TVB跑了多年龙套，在影视圈爬了二十多年，还是个没名没姓的十八线。\n虽然手握\n“凤穿牡丹，国色天香”\n等热播剧，逐渐摆脱了小透明的标签。\n
\n可明眼人都能看出来，\n这只是走红的开始，距离“一线小生”还有很长一段路要走。\n反观杨幂，早就在内娱打开了知名度。\n灵气十足的小郭襄。\n
\n外表强势内心善良的雪见，把“仙女”这个词具象化的夕瑶。\n
\n从现代穿越到清朝的洛晴川。\n
\n一个个角色，暴涨的人气，让她成功在一线女星的行列站稳了脚跟。\n正是她的知名度在，恋情公开后的刘恺威才会一跃成为当下最受关注男演员。\n
\n看着大幂幂生产过后，直接把“幸福”两个字写在脸上的微笑，无数网友重新审视自己当初的站队，默默转移到了支持的行列。\n没想到，\n甜蜜还是败给了现实。\n曾经满眼都是爱情的小女孩，面无表情说出了那句话。\n“现在觉得结果不重要，觉得爱一个人的过程很重要，因为结果都那样”\n
\n比如，\n梅婷和鄢颇。\n前者23岁斩获国际电影节影后大奖，女一号的片约接到手软，事业上早就达到了大红大紫的程度，就连章子怡见了都会眼红。\n
\n反观她的丈夫？\n丈夫是从国外留学回来，大她六岁的美术编辑，如果不是“梅婷丈夫”这个身份估计没人认识他。\n婚后的她，不管是名气还是收入都比丈夫更胜一筹。\n
\n为了实现丈夫的导演梦，不计片酬出演，花光了积蓄帮他拍电影。\n就在网友快要相信，人间有真爱的时候，热恋时满眼都是对方的两人，最终还是走向了离婚。\n
\n所以，得知\n事业有成的清子和默默无闻的大海哥恋爱，无数人劝她想想清楚。\n她是怎么说的：\n“他本人很帅，比照片还帅，尤其是他下厨的样子，真的很迷人”\n
\n此后的她，\n带着大海哥一起出席活动，社交平台上到处都是两人的甜蜜互动。\n那份默契和恩爱，让无数人相信他们一定会走到最后，可结果总是出人意料。\n
\n02藏在细节里的爱与不爱\n她口中的“好”是什么样？\n粉丝眼中的“甜蜜”又是什么样？\n或许，从2017年的综艺节目中，从他们相处的方式中就能找到答案。\n
\n《亲爱的客栈》中每一次出现分歧，两人都会从最初的商量演变成激烈地争吵。\n
\n她的愿望很简单，就是找一个喜欢的人组成一个小家\n，过着平凡且满足的生活。\n可她想要就一定能得到吗？\n
\n“真的很想在30岁之前结婚”\n“结婚对我来说就是陪伴，还是希望有一个人可以陪你”\n彼时的他，\n不知是真心还是逢场作戏，信誓旦旦立下了自己的保证。\n
\n不管是贫穷还是富贵，都会在清子三十岁之前求婚\n。\n只不过被问及结婚的计划，他又说不出个一二三，一时间气氛降到了冰点，她还是贴心地给对方找很多理由解围。\n
\n“他还没有准备好，担子比较重，他觉得要有房有车才可以结婚”\n
\n直到2018年清子三十岁生日那天，大海哥却没有履行当初的承诺。\n
\n催男友催不动，又不想继续等，再后来就没有后来了，\n清子用十二个字，给自己的青春画上了句号。\n“没出轨，没捉奸，没合约，真分手”\n
\n爱情里的女生总是患得患失，担心对方出轨，爱上比自己更好的女生了。\n可直到经历了才知道，\n感情就是在日日夜夜的沉默里，在一次又一次的期盼和失望里消逝的。\n
\n就这样，这段不被看好的恋爱，在大海哥那句\n“你喜欢大海我爱过你”\n中草草收场。\n好笑吗？\n可这句话的热度确实高，很长一段时间里被无数人模仿。\n
\n与他的肆意、潇洒相反，分手后的清子有很长一段时间没走出这段情伤。\n就连参加节目，也是一再崩溃劝说大家。\n“千万不要找自己小的，这是我在上次感情中得到的教训”\n
\n收拾好心情的她，把所有的精力都放在了事业上\n，录综艺，拍电视剧，演话剧.......\n“信仰，亲爱的自己，突如其来的假期，飞驰人生热爱篇”\n
\n分手六年后，不仅在事业上如日中天，还找到了真正把她捧在手心里疼爱的未婚夫。\n2023年，清子被一个求婚视频登上热搜。\n
\n彼时，有人祝福有人泼冷水，\n可不管外边声音如何，她眼角眉梢的笑意做不得假。\n热度的飙升，求婚现场越来越多的细节被曝光，这时才有人发现自己当初有多天真。\n
\n知道她喜欢大海，男友就承包了一座海岛。\n把最有纪念意义的日子，放在她最喜欢的地点，自己则穿上了复杂的白衬衫。\n大概是想打扮成了童话中的王子，来迎娶心爱的公主。\n
\n浪漫。\n隆重。\n可这些精心准备，却成了网友怀疑他衣品不好，性取向不正常的理由。\n
\n殊不知，这才是正经的“王子”装扮。\n
\n质疑过后大家的目光，很快就被清子手上那颗鸽子蛋钻戒吸引。\n第一反应是惊讶，大概价值上千万的钻戒，看来她新的男友不是富一代就是富二代。\n
\n第二反应就是羡慕，\n大海哥给不了的大海，名分，浪漫，终于有人在意了\n，还用她的喜欢来表达爱她的这份心。\n
\n爱她就给她最好的一切。\n这幸福的一幕，不禁让网友联想到前任，也为她几年前那份没被珍惜的真心不值。\n“世间若无清子，何人知你大海哥”\n
\n或许是感受到了前任的幸福，心情低落的“大海哥”发了一张自拍。\n不过，很快就在大家\n“穿成这样是要去XX婚礼上端盘子”\n的调侃中删了动态。\n
\n事业成功，感情幸福，\n相较于她的事事如意，前任大海哥就没这么幸运了。\n
\n03一别两宽，各生欢喜\n自从分手之后，“大海哥”似乎又回到了那个没人知道、没人搭理的怪圈。\n
\n虽然感情上官宣了新女友，事业也陷入了低谷。\n如果不是近段时间频繁登上热搜，“大海哥”这个名字还要被遗忘多久。\n只不过，出圈的方式不太体面。\n
\n上热搜的原因，是综艺节目中一段发疯式的表演\n，身为学员的他，要搭档导师宁静复刻影视剧中的桥段。\n
\n刚开始还算正常，一个敬业的抛出台词，一个面目正经对台词：\n“我不大喜欢你的呼吸，你能离我远一点吗”\n
\n你来我往，短短三句话，\n小弟突然脸色大变，朝着大嫂扑了过去。\n
\n一旁的学员脸上写满了震惊。\n
\n一旁的导师眉头紧皱。\n
\n最后那段枪指太阳穴的自杀式表演，更是看得观众起了生理不适，表演结束后弹幕上除了问号，还有网友给出评价。\n这场景不像是爱慕者的告白，倒像是暗恋者的性骚扰。\n
\n一向讲话不留情面的吴镇宇辣评：\n“不知道在演什么”\n“不讲对白只会抱着大嫂不放手”\n
\n“大海哥撕名牌”\n“大海哥强制爱”\n“真心无意冒犯就是学艺不精”\n随后，\n这段表演不出意外上了好几个热搜，这大概是他出道以来最火的时候。\n
\n即便是宁静回应了\n“恶心到想吐”\n这个表情包，说大海哥香香的，可网友还是劝她申请工伤。\n
\n心疼和他对戏的静姐，更心疼跟他谈过恋爱的清子。\n“上节目的是大海哥，丢人的是清子”\n
\n因为分手这么多年，她还在被前任记恨，美其名曰：\n过去的恋情让自己丢了很多演戏的机会。\n
\n可是一段恋情真的会影响这么多吗？\n不一定。\n
\n一是颜值不突出。\n或许，\n当初的他身材好，颜值高，担得起清子那句“很帅很迷人”夸赞。\n可看他最近的形象，被剩下似乎是意料之中。\n
\n二是演技。\n如果真想吃演员这碗饭，必须要找个专业的老师补课。\n
\n不得不承认的是，换个角度看，只要把握住这波热度，成功洗白，事业巅峰指日可待。\n如今看来，对于大海哥和清子来说\n“一别两宽，各自欢喜”\n就是最好的结局。\n
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陶项话19458699596 ______ 因为亲爱的客栈,而且他们也很相配
弘耐徐1949纪凌尘如何回应和阚清子分手 -
陶项话19458699596 ______ 纪凌尘回应道:你喜欢大海,我爱过你.反正我是看不懂什么意思~自今年年初二人取关对方微博及ins被曝出分手之后,二人终于正式证实了这一消息.对于有网友爆料称纪凌尘出轨嫩模被阚清子抓包的消息,阚清子在微博声明中予以否认,而其在朋友圈中所发的“我的青春喂了狗”,仍让人对二人分手原因存疑.
弘耐徐1949阚清子证实分手了吗 -
陶项话19458699596 ______ 是的,在7月31日阚清子本人发微博表示已经分手了.31日,有网友曝出阚清子朋友圈截图.照片中,阚清子在朋友圈发文称:“我的青春喂了狗”,疑似证实分手.此前,有网友曝料称阚清子纪凌尘已于几个月前分手,但因双方合约在身所以并未公开.随后又有人爆料纪凌尘出轨《天使之路》冠军模特王艺,但均被双方否认.
弘耐徐1949综艺《亲爱的客栈》好看吗?评价怎么样? -
陶项话19458699596 ______ 有看点、有糟点. 看点:刘涛、王珂夫妻(老板、老板娘),都知道嫁入豪门还没享什么福的她,因王珂欠债,开始复出,拼命三郎般的工作.我会以后她会后悔,现在不会幸福,《亲爱的客栈》播出,让我知道了王珂这个人,她们相处的小日...
弘耐徐1949难道真的因为阚清子家境优渥,纪凌尘才迟迟不肯求婚吗? -
陶项话19458699596 ______ 不一定,可能纪凌尘有别的压力,或者想法. 清子想要的,他给不了.
弘耐徐1949你喜欢大海吗我爱过你你喜欢大海,我爱你最近刷微博老是看到人家说
陶项话19458699596 ______ 阚清子在今天中午12.26,宣布了分手 在微博说道“没出轨 没捉奸 没合约 真分手.谢谢大家关心.”一时之间就上了热搜,另一边纪凌尘也转发了阚清子的微博. 并在...
弘耐徐1949你羡慕纪凌尘和阚清子这对小情侣吗? -
陶项话19458699596 ______ 《亲爱的客栈》作为一部全新的综艺,还未开播时就备受期待,不仅是因为刘涛王珂的首次综艺合体,更是纪凌尘和阚清子这对甜蜜小情侣的银幕“初次合作”!这对姐弟恋虽然相差5岁,但二人超高的颜值一点都看不出差距,和其他娱乐圈的情侣不同,这对爱人爱得很高调,不仅微博时常撒狗粮,公共场合也毫不避讳!而此次在《亲爱的客栈》中,二人更是肆无忌惮,无关旁人的秀恩爱,就连节目监制都看不下去了,说他们太恩爱了!对于二人的“打打闹闹”,不仅深深伤害了其他参演嘉宾如易烊千玺和陈翔,也让观众直呼受不了!反正我是各自羡慕嫉妒恨啊
弘耐徐1949当你失恋时你会怎么办 -
陶项话19458699596 ______ 如果伤心,那新的恋爱先放手,一个人去舒服一段时间,做体育运动,看书,听音乐等事,什么时候舒服了,就考虑开始新的恋爱,如果没有伤心的地方,做好新的恋爱开始的准备.