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女孩说的pua是什么意思

来源:baiyundou.net   日期:2024-08-25

大家最近有没有被老少女阿珂的瓜刷屏?

在这之前,谁能想到这种百万粉丝博主还能压榨员工啊?

毕竟在阿珂的视频里,她可是一直积极努力,追求梦想的独立女性,还有体贴的老公,善良的公婆,过着有钱有闲有人爱的精致生活,妥妥的人生赢家,

但就是这样的励志姐姐最近竟然被扒出来竟然是个黑心骗子???

压榨员工,小三上位,职场pua,甚至连之前合作过的品牌方都出来锤人品,人设彻底崩塌。

先给不认识她的姐妹们介绍一下。

老少女阿珂之前是服装设计专业的学生,毕业以后嫁给了英国人Rob,也就是现在的老公。

Rob对她一见钟情,认识她以后拒绝了所有和他dating的女生。

这里给大家解释一下国外的dating文化,简单来说其实和国内的相亲差不多。彼此有好感的两个人先约会,也就是date,之后如果双方都觉得对方不错,就会再发展进一步的关系。所以这个阶段同时相处几个对象是非常正常的。

所以Rob在没得到阿珂的回应时就拒绝别人,相当于是为她放弃了整个鱼塘了。

第二次约会时因为太过仓促,阿珂没有化妆还穿着拖鞋,Rob怕她尴尬,自己还特意换了拖鞋去见她!

婚后日常也是非常甜蜜。

阿珂厨艺好,负责做午饭晚饭,Rob就承担起做早餐的责任,

午后一起看书,

就连家庭聚餐时也要贴贴。

除此之外,Rob还很尊重阿珂的中国情结。不仅陪着她做月饼,

两人回阿珂老家探亲,Rob在向下追着鸡满村跑,是肉眼可见的开心。

之后还去了阿珂小时候住的地方,阿珂以前的学校,全方位了解阿珂的成长经历。

柠檬树下只有我,好酸好酸······

人绅士专一就算了,Rob还是年薪百万英镑的金融公司主管。

不管是乔治国王住过的独栋别墅,

还是带花园的大house,全都随便挑。

婚姻中最重要的两点:钱情,阿珂可是全都有了。

除了老公,阿珂的公婆也是大有来头。

婆婆是和英国王室有亲戚关系的大小姐,还是前首相的外孙女,公公则靠自己的努力考上了伊顿公学,后来又去了牛津。

虽然都说豪门水深,但公婆对她非常尊重她的爱好,

不仅配合她拍各种视频,

邀请她来家做客时,还专门学做了中餐招待她。

公公兼职园丁,给他们的花园除草。

可爱的公婆与温暖和谐的家庭环境吸引了不少粉丝。

妯娌关系也很不错,

和弟妹一起出去逛街吃饭,

去海底捞“跟所有的烦恼说嗨嗨”。

豪门恩怨她是一点没碰到。

而阿珂本人也是一点都不差。虽然家庭条件一般,但考入了世界著名的设计院校,之后还读了研究生。

没做up主之前副业就比主业赚得多,做了up主之后更是为了自己开了工作室,实现服装设计师的梦想。

上得厅堂之外还下得厨房,阿珂做得一手好菜,西式甜点甜品和中式各大菜系统统不在话下,味道虽然不能说是堪比五星级餐厅,但也是大厨的水平了。

婆婆甚至让她别总给老公做那么多好吃的,说他不配吃这么好吃的东西。

突然不知道谁才是亲生的...

嫁入豪门,品牌设计师,百万up主,这不就是某江甜文照进现实吗?

但是如果仔细深究,就会发现一些不太对劲的地方。

比如英国人Rob居然是在全是中国人的探探认识她的,还总叫她toy(玩具)。

每天看似细心地了解各地美食,为公婆准备大餐,但问她松鼠鳜鱼为什么叫松鼠鳜鱼却说不出个所以然,

自己的工作室更是偶尔才去几次,很难看出创业的忙碌,简直是网友的梦中情创,

去了也只是打打下手,买买咖啡,收拾桌子,其他全是助理来,很难说到底谁才是老板。

但当时大家都没细想,只是在羡慕她多姿多彩的生活。

直到视频中出过镜的助理在小某书发长文,之后,大家才意识到,这些有可能是她表演出来的人设。

文中,助理列出了阿珂的“五宗罪”,包括但不限于:压榨员工、找枪手做设计、拖欠工资、Pua员工、看不起普通人等等。

(文章很长,挖酱给大家出一个总结版)

之前在工作室待过的实习生也站出来帮助理说话,称很多工作都是助理在做,阿珂每个月只来两三次,还基本都是因为有拍摄任务。

“檄文”一出,大家直接震惊。

毕竟当初她可是专门出了一期视频,吐槽英国服装设计专业实习生的现状和她自己之前的奇葩经历,义正言辞地反对职场pua,

结果现在被发现转过头来pua别人,甚至pua得更狠,

这难道就是自己淋过雨就非要把别人的伞撕碎?

不过有了助理的揭发,网友们之前怀疑那些的事突然变得合理起来。

有人说终于知道她为什么创业还能这么闲了,

有人扒出来她老公Rob之前的事,发现他不仅不是精英,还是个yellow fever(指因为觉得亚裔女孩好控制,只喜欢亚裔女孩的白人)。

甚至阿珂还是他出轨的对象之一,后来养的狗的名字也跟前女友有关。

连合作的品牌方也出来锤人品,说她“事很多”。

不过这些目前只是网友的爆料,还没有确切的证据。

而对于助理的指控,老少女阿珂也做出了回应。

在第一次的文字版回应中,她基本上否认了助理的所有指控,并提出助理辞职的原因是助理想要10%的销售额,但是太多了她没办法给。

看文字好像清清白白,但好像并没有拿出实质性的证据。

之后还被发现P图造假,

一直删评论也好像是做贼心虚。

网友:我锤我自己?

而第二次三十多分钟的视频版回应则显得稍微靠谱了些,不仅再次否认了全部指控,也展示了自己的一些设计稿,证明自己有参与过服装的设计。

很多网友看了之后认为有些部分确实能够回应质疑,要让子弹再飞一会儿,

但更多的网友觉得她是在避重就轻,偷换概念,撒谎博同情。

随后,助理又一次发文,直接PO出包括设计原稿、拖延报销、贪污工资等等证据,

明显比阿珂的聊天记录更有说服力。

事已至此,不知道关于阿珂其他的爆料是否真实,但压榨员工应该是没跑了。

网友们群情激愤,不仅攻陷老少女阿珂各大平台账号讨要说法,

帮助理出谋划策,让她能得到合理的补偿,

还帮着举报黑心老板,

打工人help打工人!

不过大家之所以对这件事这么关注,其实是因为太容易与助理共情了。

明明是在为了自己喜欢的事业坚持奋斗,但却没有得到相应的支付报酬,

明明是自己加班加点做出来的成果,却要被没有付出一点努力的老板霸占,

而他既妄图榨干你的最后价值,却又不认可你的能力,

这种事,哪个打工人看了不心酸。

而老少女阿珂,明明之前也是打工人一枚,却在财富的不断积累中渐渐迷失,成了自己最讨厌的黑心老板。

屠龙的少年最终变成恶龙,实在让人唏嘘。

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皮爱菊4421每个人的一生都会遇到某个人 他打破你的原则 改变你的习惯 成为你的例外 如题,一个女孩对别人说这句话是什么意思? -
沈尹申15120355366 ______[答案] 能够打破她的原则,改变她的习惯的,只有她心里住着的那个人,可以看做是一种含蓄的表白

皮爱菊4421一个女孩对我说样的一句话“不要整天在猜我了”请问大家这句话是什么意思吗? -
沈尹申15120355366 ______[答案] 由于不知道她说这句话时所处的环境和情况(条件,比如,是单独相处的情况下,还是大庭广众下的“质问”,亦或是“有... 答案一:恭喜你哦,你即将(或者..已经?)猜中她心中所想,她当然不乐意了,毕竟女孩子嘛,都很骄傲的,哪能让你轻易...

皮爱菊4421黑骑士是什么意思…一个女生对一个男生说,你是不是电视里面的黑骑士啊! -
沈尹申15120355366 ______ 黑骑士是一种牺牲,守护的精神. 骑兵指指欧洲封建时代为国王或其他长官服务的武士,也指欧洲中世纪时,受过正规军事训练的骑兵.后来演变为一种荣誉称号,用于表示一种社会阶层.如古罗马骑士,指古罗马统治阶级中的一个阶层. 词...

皮爱菊4421和一个女孩在一块玩了天晚上送她回去的时候她说想吃烤肠什么意思?和
沈尹申15120355366 ______ 有以下三种可能ʕ •ᴥ•ʔ1.他真的饿了,想吃烤肠2.她想吃你的烤肠o(`ω´ )o3.她想试探你,看你舍不舍得给她花钱(这个可能性太小).

皮爱菊4421菊花台倒影明月,谁知吾爱心中寒 这句话还有什么寓意,表达了什么情感?如果一个女孩对你说这么一句话是什么意思呢? -
沈尹申15120355366 ______[答案] 意思:菊花台上明月皎洁,倒映着影子,可又有谁知道我心中的爱慕,心中的悲切? 明白意思了,看情况能不能说吧 . 这首歌你可以唱出来,但是这句话说或者写给一个女孩子有点不太合适,太抑郁,太低沉,还加有点造作,好像不太合适吧

皮爱菊4421追的女孩说:重新认识了你,重新认识了自己是什么意思 -
沈尹申15120355366 ______[答案] 已经开始接受你了.

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