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女生说你pua我是什么意思

来源:baiyundou.net   日期:2024-07-08

大家最近有没有被老少女阿珂的瓜刷屏?

在这之前,谁能想到这种百万粉丝博主还能压榨员工啊?

毕竟在阿珂的视频里,她可是一直积极努力,追求梦想的独立女性,还有体贴的老公,善良的公婆,过着有钱有闲有人爱的精致生活,妥妥的人生赢家,

但就是这样的励志姐姐最近竟然被扒出来竟然是个黑心骗子???

压榨员工,小三上位,职场pua,甚至连之前合作过的品牌方都出来锤人品,人设彻底崩塌。

先给不认识她的姐妹们介绍一下。

老少女阿珂之前是服装设计专业的学生,毕业以后嫁给了英国人Rob,也就是现在的老公。

Rob对她一见钟情,认识她以后拒绝了所有和他dating的女生。

这里给大家解释一下国外的dating文化,简单来说其实和国内的相亲差不多。彼此有好感的两个人先约会,也就是date,之后如果双方都觉得对方不错,就会再发展进一步的关系。所以这个阶段同时相处几个对象是非常正常的。

所以Rob在没得到阿珂的回应时就拒绝别人,相当于是为她放弃了整个鱼塘了。

第二次约会时因为太过仓促,阿珂没有化妆还穿着拖鞋,Rob怕她尴尬,自己还特意换了拖鞋去见她!

婚后日常也是非常甜蜜。

阿珂厨艺好,负责做午饭晚饭,Rob就承担起做早餐的责任,

午后一起看书,

就连家庭聚餐时也要贴贴。

除此之外,Rob还很尊重阿珂的中国情结。不仅陪着她做月饼,

两人回阿珂老家探亲,Rob在向下追着鸡满村跑,是肉眼可见的开心。

之后还去了阿珂小时候住的地方,阿珂以前的学校,全方位了解阿珂的成长经历。

柠檬树下只有我,好酸好酸······

人绅士专一就算了,Rob还是年薪百万英镑的金融公司主管。

不管是乔治国王住过的独栋别墅,

还是带花园的大house,全都随便挑。

婚姻中最重要的两点:钱情,阿珂可是全都有了。

除了老公,阿珂的公婆也是大有来头。

婆婆是和英国王室有亲戚关系的大小姐,还是前首相的外孙女,公公则靠自己的努力考上了伊顿公学,后来又去了牛津。

虽然都说豪门水深,但公婆对她非常尊重她的爱好,

不仅配合她拍各种视频,

邀请她来家做客时,还专门学做了中餐招待她。

公公兼职园丁,给他们的花园除草。

可爱的公婆与温暖和谐的家庭环境吸引了不少粉丝。

妯娌关系也很不错,

和弟妹一起出去逛街吃饭,

去海底捞“跟所有的烦恼说嗨嗨”。

豪门恩怨她是一点没碰到。

而阿珂本人也是一点都不差。虽然家庭条件一般,但考入了世界著名的设计院校,之后还读了研究生。

没做up主之前副业就比主业赚得多,做了up主之后更是为了自己开了工作室,实现服装设计师的梦想。

上得厅堂之外还下得厨房,阿珂做得一手好菜,西式甜点甜品和中式各大菜系统统不在话下,味道虽然不能说是堪比五星级餐厅,但也是大厨的水平了。

婆婆甚至让她别总给老公做那么多好吃的,说他不配吃这么好吃的东西。

突然不知道谁才是亲生的...

嫁入豪门,品牌设计师,百万up主,这不就是某江甜文照进现实吗?

但是如果仔细深究,就会发现一些不太对劲的地方。

比如英国人Rob居然是在全是中国人的探探认识她的,还总叫她toy(玩具)。

每天看似细心地了解各地美食,为公婆准备大餐,但问她松鼠鳜鱼为什么叫松鼠鳜鱼却说不出个所以然,

自己的工作室更是偶尔才去几次,很难看出创业的忙碌,简直是网友的梦中情创,

去了也只是打打下手,买买咖啡,收拾桌子,其他全是助理来,很难说到底谁才是老板。

但当时大家都没细想,只是在羡慕她多姿多彩的生活。

直到视频中出过镜的助理在小某书发长文,之后,大家才意识到,这些有可能是她表演出来的人设。

文中,助理列出了阿珂的“五宗罪”,包括但不限于:压榨员工、找枪手做设计、拖欠工资、Pua员工、看不起普通人等等。

(文章很长,挖酱给大家出一个总结版)

之前在工作室待过的实习生也站出来帮助理说话,称很多工作都是助理在做,阿珂每个月只来两三次,还基本都是因为有拍摄任务。

“檄文”一出,大家直接震惊。

毕竟当初她可是专门出了一期视频,吐槽英国服装设计专业实习生的现状和她自己之前的奇葩经历,义正言辞地反对职场pua,

结果现在被发现转过头来pua别人,甚至pua得更狠,

这难道就是自己淋过雨就非要把别人的伞撕碎?

不过有了助理的揭发,网友们之前怀疑那些的事突然变得合理起来。

有人说终于知道她为什么创业还能这么闲了,

有人扒出来她老公Rob之前的事,发现他不仅不是精英,还是个yellow fever(指因为觉得亚裔女孩好控制,只喜欢亚裔女孩的白人)。

甚至阿珂还是他出轨的对象之一,后来养的狗的名字也跟前女友有关。

连合作的品牌方也出来锤人品,说她“事很多”。

不过这些目前只是网友的爆料,还没有确切的证据。

而对于助理的指控,老少女阿珂也做出了回应。

在第一次的文字版回应中,她基本上否认了助理的所有指控,并提出助理辞职的原因是助理想要10%的销售额,但是太多了她没办法给。

看文字好像清清白白,但好像并没有拿出实质性的证据。

之后还被发现P图造假,

一直删评论也好像是做贼心虚。

网友:我锤我自己?

而第二次三十多分钟的视频版回应则显得稍微靠谱了些,不仅再次否认了全部指控,也展示了自己的一些设计稿,证明自己有参与过服装的设计。

很多网友看了之后认为有些部分确实能够回应质疑,要让子弹再飞一会儿,

但更多的网友觉得她是在避重就轻,偷换概念,撒谎博同情。

随后,助理又一次发文,直接PO出包括设计原稿、拖延报销、贪污工资等等证据,

明显比阿珂的聊天记录更有说服力。

事已至此,不知道关于阿珂其他的爆料是否真实,但压榨员工应该是没跑了。

网友们群情激愤,不仅攻陷老少女阿珂各大平台账号讨要说法,

帮助理出谋划策,让她能得到合理的补偿,

还帮着举报黑心老板,

打工人help打工人!

不过大家之所以对这件事这么关注,其实是因为太容易与助理共情了。

明明是在为了自己喜欢的事业坚持奋斗,但却没有得到相应的支付报酬,

明明是自己加班加点做出来的成果,却要被没有付出一点努力的老板霸占,

而他既妄图榨干你的最后价值,却又不认可你的能力,

这种事,哪个打工人看了不心酸。

而老少女阿珂,明明之前也是打工人一枚,却在财富的不断积累中渐渐迷失,成了自己最讨厌的黑心老板。

屠龙的少年最终变成恶龙,实在让人唏嘘。

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红哈毕13257427605 ______ 女生说你是猪,看起来是对男生不太友好的感觉,实际上可能是女生对你的一个爱称,所以如果有一个女生说你是猪,千万别急着生气,先分析女生说你是猪是什么意思?再看看怎么幽默机智回答她.一、女生说你是猪什么意思 1、女生基旁没...

鄂泼韩652当你逗女孩时,女孩说你骗子是什么意思 -
红哈毕13257427605 ______ 这有很多可能,要看具体的情况才能确定的. 不过如果她不讨厌你的话,而你又对她有意思的话可以这样说—— 男人对女人基本都是骗的,区别就是有人只是骗一时而有的人骗一世……而我想骗你一辈子!

鄂泼韩652有谁知道女孩女说的"周公"是什么意思女孩说"周公的儿子"或是"周
红哈毕13257427605 ______ 《正想和周公的谁拍拖...》 意思是和梦里的人拍拖,或是梦想里的人 一般也就用周公代替了

鄂泼韩652有一个女生喜欢说我傻喊我小愣货 为什么
红哈毕13257427605 ______ 哈哈那不是喜欢你,就是你确实有点哈...

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