周末大瓜吃了吗？当红小花脏话骂人，吴磊差点成为下一个深陷插刀教“印小天”。

《星汉灿烂》杀青一年后，赵露思吴磊骑马花絮再次登上热搜，比起一年前官方掐头去尾的官方花絮，这个视频让大家见识到了赵露思的“真实面目”。

在视频里，吴磊和赵露思双人同骑一匹马，吴磊情绪稳定，但前面的赵露思一直在吱哇乱叫，甚至大骂吴磊有病。

最脏的那句话，连打出字来都是会被和谐的程度。只能说赵露思至此之后多了个头衔“麻辣隔壁姐”。

是什么让赵露思在片场对同事破口大骂，接连脏话问候母亲？

起因是吴磊和赵露思在《星汉灿烂》接近杀青时，按剧本拍了一场双人骑马戏。剧情里男主飞身上马，拯救了在马背上惊慌失措的女主。

结果开拍时，两人都坐在马背上，吴磊已经进入拍摄状态，而赵露思还在分神玩头发，以至于她没听到导演已经喊了“开机”。

在吴磊按剧情拉马疾驰时，赵露思坐在马背上乱扭乱叫。吴磊以为赵露思也进入了演戏状态，所以正常演戏，而赵露思却觉得吴磊是故意捉弄他，开始张口骂娘：

吴磊察觉到她的不对，也立马把马拉停了，细心解释：“这是开机了，我们是在演戏。”

在工作人员上前证明已经开机了后，赵露思没有反思自己走神影响拍摄，也没对吴磊表示歉意，而是依旧嘴上骂着“吴磊你有病啊”。

甚至带着怒气挥手打了吴磊。

除了赵露思以外的所有人都知道开机了，赵露思不敬业理亏在先，却依旧理直气壮。

吴磊被骂受气，但还是保持着体面和涵养，认真解释自己是听见开机才开始跑的，赵露思下马的时候还伸手护着以防她摔倒。

下马后，剧组的所有人都去哄赵露思，被打被骂妈的吴磊，一个人坐在马背上梳理情绪，深深吸了一口气。估计当时吴磊也在马背上，将职业素养默念了几十遍，才忍下了所有的憋屈。

网友推己及人，不禁感叹吴磊脾气真好啊，认为如果自己敬业按流程工作，却还被同事怼脸骂妈，必定当场扇人怼回去。

事实上，如果不是吴磊职业素养过硬，从头到尾即使被骂被打都没有松开手一直控马保护着对方，下马后还强颜欢笑在镜头前留下了这份体面，那他很可能就会成为下一个“印小天”了。

此处简单回顾一波“插刀教”事件。同样在剧组被女星骂，印小天就因为还嘴，被打入了无尽深渊。

2012年，印小天在电视剧《枪林弹雨》剧组，因为女星边潇潇将个人情绪带到工作中，搭戏不配合，印小天多次善意提醒，却被边潇潇辱骂，印小天本能回骂了一句，随后被工作人员分开。

只是一气之下回了嘴，“没有动对方一根手指头”，印小天却没想到几乎断送了自己整个演艺生涯。

边潇潇事后颠倒黑白，指责印小天“耍大牌、打女人”，没有职业道德。甚至直接将工作矛盾上升到了性别层面：一个男人出手打女生，说一千道一万，打人就是你不对，女生们在外工作一定要保护好自己！

印小天为证自己清白，监控都放上了，却依旧没抵住舆论讨伐和朋友的插刀。

现在时间线回到2023年，如果吴磊在《星汉灿烂》片场，没忍住回了嘴甩了手，那等待他的又将是什么指责和扣锅呢？

庆幸的是，吴磊在这件事上，可以说是一个完美的受害者。

他认真拍戏，开拍后就进入了角色状态，被赵露思用脏话接连攻击后，他细声解释：“这是开拍了”，被骂全程没有甚至连黑脸都没有。

停下来后，吴磊占理却不咄咄逼人，虽然生气但还给足了体面，在对方下马时，也在考虑对方的安全，伸手扶着她下了马。

而尽管已经做到了如此滴水不漏，还是有赵露思的粉丝指责他：吴磊这就是故意的职场霸凌！他故意想看女方出丑，想置赵露思于死地！

成排的女方粉丝艾特吴磊：妈宝男吴磊你敢不敢出来出来说两句？

认真工作的是吴磊，被骂的是吴磊，被打的是吴磊，怎么就变成了要吴磊出来道歉了？吴磊尽责地护住了赵露思，却被泼脏水，说成是“令赵露思身处险境的人。”

难以想象，如果现场吴磊没忍住回怼了，那现在又会是怎样一个场面，那可能真就是印小天事件重现了。

而片场骂了人的赵露思，明显也不是什么单纯甜妹。事后她可能自觉理亏，所以在《星汉灿烂》发布会上主动提及此事，开始开脱埋线。

她说这个马在两天前就已经很亢奋了，当时大家都以为这马发疯了。实际上，大家都进入了拍戏状态，并没有人觉得马发疯了。

提起这件事，吴磊也是一脸的警觉。

他需要时刻注意对方在表述里挖下的坑、设下的埋伏：

能看的出来，吴磊并不是对这件事毫无芥蒂，甚至在日后跟赵露思的相处中，都默默打起了12分的小心。

吴磊本人也不是没有脾气，他只是当场忍住了。有剧组人爆料，当场被骂后，其实他超级生气，甚至自掏腰包尽量明天杀青，连夜带着团队就跑了。

爆料真假存疑，但吴磊杀青当天，确实跑得挺快的。

吴磊从小接受的教育，就是不能随便说脏话，他在学校路上听见别人说了太过分的脏话，都会出声制止，何况是被同时当面辱骂问候妈妈？

吴磊入行20年，3岁出道，一步步从龙套配角演起，妈妈是陪伴他最多的人。曾经没出名时，妈妈带着他应该受到了不少剧组的冷言冷语。

所以18岁生日会上，从不在私下镜头前落泪的吴磊，含泪：“那时候我就发誓要让剧组所有人尊重我妈妈”

如今吴磊已经在娱乐圈立稳了脚跟，做了男一，被全剧组人尊重，却还是在片场被合作伙伴骂了妈。

吴磊三岁出道，一路走来也算见识到了娱乐圈的浮浮沉沉。2012年印小天“插刀教事件”发生事，吴磊只有12岁，却已经是在娱乐圈打工9年的老资历了，可能当时他也从中认识到了娱乐圈的“吃人”规则。

能在娱乐圈待20年，吴磊学会了隐藏过激情绪，一切以工作为主。他不会轻易动怒，18岁被直播主持人开黄腔，他也没有冷脸，只是笑着回怼。

他“懂事”的背后，不知道受过多少“教训”，吃过多少亏。

如今赵露思骂人事件发酵，央妈疑似内涵发话发话：“阴暗的情绪只能使你越来越差。”

确实，要想在娱乐圈长期立足，人品和作品都应该是拿得出手的，这样的人才能被称之为偶像。

有人开机前走神，在马背上被颠了一下就“性命攸关、命悬一线”；有人双手脱缰骑马，摔下来后也只是自责自己没拍好。

有人迟到不敬业，被多方业内吐槽；有人从小就知道签了合同的事，就该遵守。

有人数学考16分，出道当演员，拍完戏后都记不住时代背景、建国年份，被官方点名“文盲演员”。

有人出道演戏，就深知学习对当好演员的重要性：

有人脏话脱口而出，麻辣了隔壁；有人严于律己处处照顾身边人。

吴磊和赵露思，让我看见了两种不同的职业操守，两种不同的偶像明星，可能这就是演员之间的参差吧。

观众需要什么样的演员，粉丝需要什么样的偶像，相信大家心里自有答案。

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方壮生13169776193 ______ 【法律分析】:爸爸娶了后妈之后,孩子对后妈也是有赡养义务的.根据法律规定,成年子女对父母有赡养义务,如果不履行赡养义务的要支付赡养费.即使是继母子女也应该继续履行赡养义务,或者是支付赡养费.【法律依据】:《中华人民共和国民法典》 第一千零六十七条 父母不履行抚养义务的,未成年子女或者不能独立生活的成年子女,有要求父母给付抚养费的权利.成年子女不履行赡养义务的,缺乏劳动能力或者生活困难的父母,有要求成年子女给付赡养费的权利. 第一千零七十二条 继父母与继子女间,不得虐待或者歧视.继父或者继母和受其抚养教育的继子女间的权利义务关系,适用本法关于父母子女关系的规定.

花华石5232我是弟弟因为家里太穷娶不到老婆我听了爸妈的提议娶了我姐如今我姐给我生了一对龙凤胎一岁多了? -
方壮生13169776193 ______ 想问一下,应该不是亲姐弟吧,亲姐弟父母也不会让你们在一起的,生了一对龙凤胎挺好的,好好对待你姐祝你们幸福

花华石5232我二叔要娶我妈怎么办这可以吗 -
方壮生13169776193 ______ 结婚条件:结婚的积极条件:结婚必须男女双方完全自愿,不许任何一方对他方加以强迫或任何第三者加以干涉.结婚年龄,男不得早于二十二周岁,女不得早于二十周岁.消极条件:有下列情形之一的,禁止结婚:(一)有配偶者;(二)直系血亲和三代以内的旁系血亲;(三)患有医学上认为不应当结婚的疾病.综上:是可以的.

花华石5232请教在线律师一个复杂的房产问题我爸爸婚前买了一个房子然后娶了我妈
方壮生13169776193 ______ 从你说的情形看,这房子是你爸爸的个人婚前财产,你爸爸去世后有继承权的应该有你妈妈和你,如果你爷爷奶奶当时还在的话还应该有他们二位,在不考虑你爷爷奶奶的...

花华石5232不嫁我娶你妈和不娶我嫁爸是情侣网名吗 -
方壮生13169776193 ______ 是,可以试着断句来读 不嫁,我娶你妈不娶,我嫁爸或者不娶我,嫁爸不嫁我,娶你妈但后者就不太像,而且第二个有点过