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当金牌经纪人霍汶希在《乘风2023》节目中,说出一句“我们都是看SHE长大的”之后,立马收到了网友们善意调侃。

——表面说SHE,实际上还想着Twins吧!

两个女团天花板,同年出道,暗自争锋,经历二十多年风风雨雨,又都先后站上了重新出发的舞台。

其实Twins还是稍微圆满一点,二人都还在老东家英皇,快快乐乐顺畅合体,可以一起上节目、开演唱会、参加活动——再过几天,2023年5月18日,又正好是Twins组合成军纪念日,掐指一算,阿娇和阿Sa已经在一起二十二年了。

不少庆祝活动也开始举行,Twins香港电车环游派对就狠狠热闹了一把。

就看二人最近的互动,哪怕不是Twins的粉丝,都觉得美好,女孩子之间的感情太让人羡慕了。

——她们一起给公司后辈加油,气氛轻松动作默契;

——她们一起逛喜欢的展览,互相拍照美美发动态;

——她们一起出席电影节红毯,连出发造型都是合照。

翻看蔡卓妍和钟欣潼的社媒账号,有时候都会恍惚,这到底是单人账号还是双人账号,怎么这么喜欢黏在一起呀?

像Twins这样的感情,放在任何一个圈子都尤其珍贵,何况是充满塑料友情的娱乐圈,哪怕脱离明星身份,普通人都难得能维持如此情谊,有多少人走着走着就走散了。

看到这可能有人要说,Twins是个组合,合体是她们的工作,大家都是要赚钱的!

别忘了,再往前数十几年,不止一次,几乎所有人都在告诉她们,也许分开发展比较好,甚至她们一度真的分开发展过。

两个小女生在一开始的时候,关系也没有那么好。

阿娇和阿Sa曾经在一次采访中坦言,组合出道前三年,身边总有人挑拨她们关系。

有人跟阿娇说阿sa坏话,有人跟阿sa说阿娇坏话,她们也是在一次旅行中终于成功交心,关系逐渐亲密了起来。

这里也不由感慨,多少弥足珍贵的感情,都起源于年少时刻,少年多情,情谊总是大过利益——那时候Twins红透半边天,连续两年创下最高销量纪录,首次拿下金曲奖,还登上了央视春晚。

也正是这段时间,Twins频频曝出单飞传闻,她们在一次直播中公开回应了,留下了那一句经典的“Twins永不解散”。

“Twins永不解散”在阿娇和阿Sa二十二年出道经历里,出现了两次,一次在组合最红的时候,一次则是在组合最低谷的时候。

——红的时候就要Twins不要互相抢风头,低谷的时候更要Twins不要互相连累,红的时候没有成功,低谷的时候成功了,Twins没有解散过但确实分开发展过。

而且二人分开发展之后,也都还挺好的。

阿娇重新出发,推出个人专辑,销量不错;阿sa磨练演技,入围金像奖,还拿个影后。

单纯从结果回看Twins在低谷期分开发展这个选择,也似乎没有错。

可是如果把“女歌手红馆演唱会场次排名”摆出来一看,还是会有遗憾——Twins进榜了,以20场的数量排在第12位,前面十一位几乎都是大前辈。

如果Twins没有分开发展过,是不是有机会进入前十,或者更靠前呢?

要知道Twins可是最年轻踏上红馆举办演唱会的女团,阿sa更是最年轻踏上红馆举办演唱会的艺人,那时候她才19岁。

这场破纪录的红馆演唱会,在Twins演艺生涯中具有特殊意义,两个不满20岁的小女生,出道还没2年,恰好赶在了一个突然空余出来的场馆档期,被赶鸭子上架般地连开三场。

等到演唱会结束,阿娇和阿sa在台上抱头痛哭,当时报道完整描述了现场场景,在文章最后评价道:“这是一种真情流露,没有人能抗拒得了。”

浅浅代入一下,如果你与一个人,从年少起就被称为“Twins”,一起享受过掌声与荣耀,一起登上过巅峰,你的成功、落魄都与她有关,时光荏苒、白驹过隙,20多年过去,爱过恨过,人到中年,扭过头发现原来她一直都在——Twins能被称之为最后一个少女组合,她们能带给大众的情怀从来不仅有作品,更是代表着从少女成长贯穿一生的心事:害怕孤身一人过,但很幸运,终究没有孤身一人。

阿sa多次自称是阿娇的“爱情饭碗”,阿娇也认可这个说法,对于“爱情饭碗”这四字,阿sa的解释就一句话:“我都养得起你的”——都说阿娇恋爱脑,但阿sa最懂她只是缺安全感,所以不要怕,玫瑰与面包我都能给你。

现在的Twins终于不用再面对单飞、解散等传闻了,看了她们22年也终于懂了三件事:少年多情,情谊珍贵,贵在年少。

——面对一份从年少时就开始的珍贵情谊,是利益还是真情,不要急着猜测,时间会给出了答案。

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